Kelly Drover

Sydney Coastrek 2020 - 30km

I’m taking on Sydney Coastrek!

On Friday 27 March, I'll be taking part in Sydney Coastrek, the ultimate team trekking and fundraising challenge, proudly supporting Beyond Blue.

Did you know that three million people in Australia are living with anxiety and depression?

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The big C won’t stop us

Friday 27th March our team were supposed to be walking 30km from South Curl Curl to Mosman to raise funds for Beyond Blue.


The organisers obviously need to consider their social responsibility, and unfortunately, thanks to the C word, Coastrek is now unable to go ahead.


However, teams are able to complete it virtually. Which means on Friday 27th March, our team will still walk 30km, we just won’t be doing it in Sydney and we won’t be doing it with all the other trekkers. It will just be the 4 of us walking 30km through Bouddi National Park on the Central Coast, tracking our walk digitally.


It’s times like this, these first few crazy months of 2020, that the support services of organisations like Beyond Blue are needed more than ever.


We are so grateful to all our donors that we still wanted to do a 30km walk to show our appreciation for helping us reach our $2000 fundraising goal and taking a small step to removing the stigma that surrounds these mental health issues that can affect us all.



Life is tough, but you are tougher

I love a good challenge, and a challenge that so many of us deal with on a daily depression.

But another huge challenge, is overcoming the stigma that surrounds mental health issues like depression.


You can't 'see' depression but that doesn't mean it's not real.


I’m always happy and smiling and laughing, so depression doesn’t affect someone like me, right?? WRONG!!


I have suffered depression at different stages over the past 6.5years, triggered by the loss of my husband and subsequent life struggles since then.


On the surface, I smile and talk about the normal things you're supposed to talk about with others and answer 'how are you?' with the expected 'fine thank you, and yourself?'.


What people don't see are the days when leaving the house seems like an impossible feat, when just the process of getting dressed is exhausting and distressing, the days where I can't seem to stop crying, when sleeping is the only way to get away from my thoughts, or alternatively when I feel numb.


Unfortunately, because I have this happy bubbly facade, and seem perfectly ‘normal’ on the outside, when you choose to be open about your struggles you’re often met with the phrase, ‘you can’t be dealing with that much if you’re still able to get out of bed in the morning’.


A terribly frustrating sentence that I, as someone who is high-functioning, and others with similar conditions hear far too often. Although I’m sure (well, I hope!) these comments aren’t intended to cause harm, and likely descend from ignorance around mental health in general, they really need to stop.


Being high-functioning does not put you in a category above others dealing with mental health. It doesn’t mean you’ve got a strong grasp of your condition and understand how to manage it. It doesn’t mean your struggles are less than those who cannot function in the same way, and of course doesn’t mean yours are worse. Everyone’s issues are relative.


What it does mean is that you are trying to get on with your day, doing your best, all the while struggling to keep the impending anxiety, depression or other mental health issues hidden away.


Being depressed isn't something that anyone chooses or something that can be solved just by thinking positively (as nice as that would be!).


It can feel like to tell someone you're struggling is to place a massive burden on them, to make them feel uncomfortable, or even worse, there's the fear that it will make them walk away from you (which has personally happened to me).


And whilst if the tables were turned and a friend was telling me they were struggling I wouldn't think any of those things, depression and anxiety can make you second-guess everything and feel unworthy of compassion and understanding from others.


Asking for help does not make a person feeble. In fact, it does the opposite. It fortifies you. It demonstrates your willingness to fight for yourself. It makes you the hero of your own story. One day, I hope we can unite on the idea that depression is not a disgraceful condition. And for people who do not experience depression but may know someone who does, be a friend to them. Be gentle and patient. They are fighting every day to overcome an invisible barrier. You don’t have to understand what they’re feeling, just that a little empathy can go a long way.

Thank you to my Sponsors


Christine Collins

Well done darling


Peita Uren


Craig Haskell


Shane Sullivan

Go Kelly, go Kelly!


Donna C

You got this girl!!




More Than Milk Co Pty Ltd

Go get em Cuz! Your awesome


James Taylor

Go hard (as you always do) Kel - very impressed with what you have done so far and the goals that you set yourself.


Ian And Lee Hughes

Well done Kelly!


Ian, Lee And Lincoln Hughes

Well done Kelly. You’re amazing. Lincoln.


Rachel Mcroberts

You’re awesome x


Nicole Schull

Worthy cause close to my heart


Denise Lincoln

Good luck love x


Rodney Williams


Tony Collins

Great work great team


Eve Jones

Go Kelly! Again and again.



Good luck Kel xx


Michelle Timperley

Best wishes Kelly!


Mel Sheekey

Awesome and inspirational 😎👌


Scott Micallef

Great cause kel


Sylvia Lake

Well done


Vivienne Sheekey

Such a good cause


Lauren Brindley

Happy walking! (Pack a poncho?) wonderful cause xx


Pam Mccann

Good on you Kelly


Christine Collins

It is so hard seeing you deal with depression after what you have been through but I admire your strength and how you are trying to deal with it.. Love you 😘


Peita Urwn

Proud to know you sweet


Kathy Bragg

Good luck Kelly - well done!!


Jimmy Klimis

You're an amazing human being Kelly , continue to inspire all around you!


Deb Long

Enjoy the challenge Kelly, inspirational woman.


Sarah Wright

Well done!